hahas
now i have nothing to do.
too lazy to do my homework
too lazy to care X]
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anyway, reading this book, by sue augustine, when your past is hurting your present..getting beyong the fears that hold you back.

TO LET GO IS TO FEAR LESS AND TO LOVE MORE....



nw im at the chapter, letting go..
anyway, yeah. it makes sense, right?
its so hard to let go of past hurts, past regrets, because
*im quoting*
-our memory keeps bringing it back to our mind
-we are conditioned to believe its just not dat easy
-letting go seems too simple an answer
-we feel we'll be losing control...

why cant we just trust God with our pasts, and let go of every hurt? .. haiz. let go of all the remorse.. all the regrets.. haiz..
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*im quoting*
1. let go of past regrest.
2. let go of should have, could have, and if only.
3. let go of putting my life on hold
4. let go of yearning for the good old days.
5. let go of believing its your lot in life to sufer
6. let go of the addiction to drama in your life
7. let go of unpredictive thoughts.
8. let go of unrealistic expectations.

John 16:33
in this godless world, you will continue to experience difficulties. But take heart! I've conquered the world.
God will not leave your or forsake you. he promised you his presence, he promises to equip you with what you need to face every ordeal.

9. let go of setting impossible standards for yourself.
10. let go of feeling responsibble for others' reactions
11. let go of pessimistic associations.
12. let go of wondering what other ppl think of you.
13. let go of trying to change other ppl.
14. LET GO OF BITTERNESS
job 5:2
to worry yourself to death with resentment would be a foolish, senseless thing to do.
*this affects me alot.*
the bitter truth about bitterness is that if you insist on holding a grudge, soon it will hold you.
many ppl hold on to old hurts and never get over them. rather then relinquishing their pain through forgiveness, they mentally review the cause of the pain over and over. bitterness, when internalized, opens the door to all sorts of unhealthy feelings and emotions, including resentment, animosity, antagonism, and even hatred. some women clam up, while others blow up! eventually, when those feelings are harbored long enough, they explode and lead to plotting revenge.
biterness always hurts you more than the person its aimed at. usually, the offender forgets the wrongdoing, and goes on with life, while you continue to seethe in your anguish, keeping the past alive.

THE BEST WAY TO LET GO!!!
When we want to let go of a situation, no matter what it is, we must be able to "bless" it. When you bless something, you sanction it, giving it your approval and endorsement, freeing it to go forward with your cooperation and support. As one writer said, "bless a thing and it will bless you. Curse a thing and it will curse you. If you bless a situation, it has no power to hurt you" So,"let us throw off everything that hinders.. and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us"(hebrews 12:1) And let us discover true freedom through forgiveness.

LETTING GO
to let go dosent mean to stop caring;
it means i cant do it for some1 else;
to let go is not to cut myself off;
its the realization that i dont control another;
to let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
to let go is not to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands
to let go is not to try to change or blame another;
i can only change myself.
to let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
to let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
to let go is not to be protective,
it is to permit another to face reality.
to let go is not to deny
but to accept
to let go is not to nag, scold, or argue,
but to search out my own shortcomings
and correct them.
to let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone,
but to try to become
what i dream i can be
to letgo i snot to regret the past but to grow
and live for the future
to let go is to fear less and love more

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TO LET GO IS TO FEAR LESS AND LOVE MORE